It takes guts to be creative in today culture. That nagging little voice in our head is always telling us we aren’t good enough, talented enough, or trained enough. One of my favorite writers on the subject is Brene Brown. She is a brilliant researcher and professor at the University of Houston. She recently did one of the top 10 TED talks for 2014 on the Whole Hearted Person. Here is a portion of what she found and concluded from 6 years of research on vulnerability. She found that “people who have a strong sense of love and belonging – worthiness had it because they believed they were loved and belonged and were worthy.” She found that these people had three specific traits in common:
1. Courage – they had courage to be imperfect.
2. Compassion – they were kind to themselves and to others
3. Connection – they were willing to let go who they thought they should be in order to be who they were.
In today’s culture finding whole hearted people is becoming rare. It requires us to be completely vulnerable or as Brene calls it, excruciatingly vulnerable. As artists and creatives putting ourselves out there (opening our souls with our art) so the world can see our good, bad, and ugly instantly on YouTube, iTunes, Facebook, and Twitter is terrifying. So many great artists either stay hidden or numb themselves first because the risk is too excruciating. How many great writers have you read about that drank all night before they started writing a word? Or rock stars that had to get high on something before they went on stage?
What if you could take a different route as an artist in 2015 to deal with vulnerability and plug into a source of power that allowed you to be free and courageous without destroying your body, or mind, and sometimes your life? There is one, and His name is Jesus. He loves you unconditionally – imperfections and all. He makes you worthy because He has forgiven you – completely -freed you from guilt and shame and imperfection.
Want to be a whole hearted artist? Might be worth a try to talk to Him. He’s a breath away. Start the New Year on a new path and with new thinking – start whole heartedly.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self discipline.”
II Timothy 1:7 NLT
Absolutely!! Recently read where most artist (creatives) from time of Michelangelo- to present, took huge amounts of amphetamines and alcohol…other than “self-medication” they basically did not want to stop working on a project. Maybe label it… “manic”–which I believe most creatives do experience: I know I have! Feeling “energized, excited-pumped” about whatever one is creating! It is so easy “slip into that mode, when one is creating to “push & push…& and…then push some more”…whether it’s something you feel led to create or a commission. Especially when there is a deadline—ahh~then you take a deep breath and get back to what get back to what you were working on…and if you’re not “paying attention: working in that mode” BAM!! You’re back push and pushing again! Something I’m working on (surrendering) “resting in the Lord and totally “understanding/accepting”–HE wants me to rest…(in HIM).
Like the song, sung by Carrie Underwood, (I’ve got to remind myself to surrender…”when I remember”) “Jesus take the Wheel”. Otherwise, I’m driving & He’s in the passenger seat, saying “You rest…let Me drive, I know the way”…but many times I can’t hear Him cause my mind is so full of “all ‘I need’ to do”. I’m “driving as hard as I can with no rest–not giving up–we will get there” thinking I know the way, until I reach the Canadian border and realize “Oh my gosh!! I was in such in a hurry…”you mean, this isn’t Key West? What!!…Whoa…but “I thought I was going south”?! Truly!
Goodness, maybe some people can identify with this!!
I’m sooo blessed, the Lord gives me so much revelation! I know it’s not so I can grab it and “take off like a rocket”…it’s to let Him do His work through me…and I enjoy the ride (as He drives me to where I need to be)~ God bless! Sincerely, Lorna >
Great note Lorna – we forget that God is in the silent and quiet times and even when the blood is pumping and we are going full speed ahead we have to consciously use the brake petal – and take a “break” to see and hear His voice. Welcome to the Influence Lab Women – tell someone else to sign up and be an influence! Hugs!